Whenever the word “massage” is uttered in between couples, most think about the shoulder to shoulder rub. But this, in most cases, is not given in generosity. This is why instead of rekindling their love for each other they end up bickering about who got the massage for a longer time and who owes what to the other person. But couples massage in Auckland is capable of acting as a catalyst that assists in the resignation of your intimacy and trust. Offering a comfortable massage without expecting anything assures your partner and makes him or her feel amazing. Below are enlisted some of the dos and don’ts that you must keep in mind while getting involved in the couples massage.
- Slow down – Many couples rush through the process of giving a massage. But one should understand that there is no point finishing the thing first. That is why it is essential that you make your partner and make them form the mood. So it is advisable that start with slow and gentle strokes. Your partner will also gain trust in this process.
- Try to massage on the floor – Though the bed may seem to be a very good idea, the uneven and soft surface can hurt your back and the neck of your partner. The best position, in this case, is to ask your partner to sit on the floor in the cross-legged position in front of you while you kneel down on the floor. Just like chair massage in Auckland the position is very important here. You may support yourself on the cushions so as to take off the weight. This way you will get great access to your partner’s neck, arms, shoulders and upper back. But it is recommended that you should not offer this massage for more than 20 minutes as your knees will be stressed out by then.
- Don’t squirt directly on the body of your partner – This may look great on the movies. But in real life, this feels awful. So first go for it squirt the oil in your hand and then rub your hands to warm them up. Then massage your partner’s back with it.
- Don’t ignore the ambience – This is very important and you must keep this in mind. Tidy up the room where you will be providing the massage. Remove all types of clutter and trigger the various senses with accessories like soft music, light candles, burn incense and to serve chocolates and wine.